Cons of dating an older guy
My longest FB relationships tended to be with younger women (including VYW) and my longest more serious relationships (MLTR’s, high-end MLTR’s and OLTR) tended to last longer with women who were either over 30 or close to it.Many of you have reflected the same experience (though again, there are always exceptions). Bodies – Again, I’m going to surprise many people here.Many of you guys in my age group seem to agree this is an enjoyable thing to do with a woman. Many men point this out as one of the greatest disadvantages of younger women, and I agree (though I think drama and flakiness are bigger disadvantages). However, is there a noticeable difference between the conversational, intellectual ability of a woman in her mid to late 20’s vs. (Of course there are low-intelligence idiots in any age range; I’m not talking about those, and those women should only be FB’s anyway.) Thus, the summary here is that women age 23 and over win here, women under 23 lose, and lose big. This actually flips the other way if we’re talking about FB’s; younger women will last far longer in FB’s than older women will.Older women tend to be much less comfortable with casual relationships (unless they’re cheating on a husband/boyfriend and you’re the guy on the side).Things that used to be enjoyable to her, like sex on the first or second date, or very casual sexual relationships, are now suddenly horrible and largely unacceptable.That doesn’t mean dating women over 33 is 100% bad.Societal Programming, particularly in the manosphere, preaches that younger women have perfect bodies, and as soon as they cross over age 30, their SMV instantly plummets and their bodies instantly get disgusting. Indeed, I have encountered a hell of a lot of the exact opposite; younger women with stretch marks and other weirdness from babies, weight gain, smoking weed, drinking alcohol, tats, and piercings, and women over 30, often over 30, with perfect, amazing, tight, trim, teenager-like bodies.
One of my favorite things to do with a non-FB woman in my life is to just sit and talk to her. Barring rare exceptions, you will not be able to do this with a woman this young, particularly if you are an older guy (over age 35). Assuming both women are of reasonable intelligence, I don’t think women over 33 have any significant advantage in this area than younger women. If your objective is to get into a long, consistent relationship that’s more serious than a FB, the older the woman is, the better your odds become, regardless of if it’s an MLTR or OLTR (though OLTR will usually last longer than a MLTR if the woman is older).It’s also true that there are some older women who will absolutely blow your mind and body during sex.Yet overall, I have to say that younger women tend to be better here.Frankly, this surprised me, since before my conversion to Alpha Male 2.0 status many years ago, I bought into the false SP that said “older women are better in bed.” 5.
Intelligence / Conversational Ability – This one is a little tricky, and it’s the only one where the two basic categories of “younger” and “older” aren’t enough.In other words, a 18 year-old is going to be easy during pickup/dating phase and an absolute cluster fuck during the long-term relationship phase, whereas a 28 year-old is going to be less easy during pickup/dating and less difficult during the relationship phase. They are absolute nightmares in the pickup/dating phases, but if you are somehow able to persevere, put up with all the ASD, bullshit, woman logic, and ridiculous demands (and in the case of the fast sex model, get very lucky with sex that occurs relatively quickly), then ongoing relationships tend to be easier and more reliable with these women.